Emery is an exclusively breastfed baby. Unlike Owen, she latched on from the very beginning. Since she is so good at it, it is something that I really enjoy (and she does too!). I often get sad just thinking about the day when I'll start weaning. I truly think the success of nursing depends upon the child and their ability to latch on. I haven't done anything different with Owen and Emery, and have had completely different feeding experiences...with breastfeeding and bottles. I only exclusively nursed Owen for the first two months then I pumped full time so he could still get all of the benefits of breast milk. He definitely preferred the bottle!
Having said that, it has been a challenge to get Emery to take a bottle. We initially tried the Medela bottles because they are compatible with my breast pump, and I had a ton from when Owen was little. They worked for a bit then she started refusing them because the nipple constantly collapsed (or they leaked all over her).
The second bottle we tried was Dr. Brown's. I had a few of these from Owen, so we didn't invest too much money in them. Emery used these for a while then started gagging and refusing them. It got to the point where she wouldn't even open her mouth! When she did, she was screaming because we were trying to force the nipple in!
After doing lots of research and talking with Emery's teachers, we decided to try Tommee Tippee bottles. As you can see from the picture, they are supposed to resemble the natural breast. I purchased one to give it a try. $10 later...success! Emery gulped the whole thing down in record time! Unfortunately, these bottles are not available in glass, which is what I liked about the previous two types.
After going back to work and constantly being worried about Emery eating, I am so thankful we found a bottle she likes (even though her first couple of days at school she would ONLY drink her bottle outside)!
We are having the same issue with a pacifier. So far we have tried three different ones, and they are all a no-go. She often prefers to suck on her fists! Isn't it amazing how different siblings can be??